Monday, June 21, 2010

Blogging Adoption

Birth mom's and birth dad's think about their child's needs first when they look at all of their options with their unplanned pregnancy.

After birth parents find out they are pregnant, then contact us they receive options counseling and more information about adoption.

We continue to support the birth parents throughout the pregnancy, helping them get connected to resources that will aid them in life.

We help the birth parents formulate goals and life plans; many have finished their GED, started college, gotten a job or began the path to do these things.

The birth parents select the adoptive parents they want to raise their baby.

After the birth of the baby the birth parents relinquish their parental rights.

After the baby is placed in the adoptive home pictures and letters are provided to the birth parents if they desire communication.

Follow up support is always available from us; we are here to talk night and day!

If you want more information about how to place a baby for adoption please contact me,
Malisa Williams @ 1800-553-2229
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Adoption Website

http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

The above website is a wonderful resource for those considering placing their child for adoption.

Visit our website and contact us so we can walk you through the adoption process.  As a licensed adoption agency we have caring professionals that can see your needs are met.

There is so much to understand and consider when contemplating placing your child for adoption, let us help you understand the process.

1-800-553-2229

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Making the best choice for your baby.

Some women who get pregnant that are unprepared to parent still choose to parent. One of the reasons they choose to parent unprepared is because they want someone to love them. They think that the baby will provide all the love they need, even when their back ground has lacked the love they needed from their parents, boyfriend, husband, etc.

What the expectant mother does not understand is that the baby cannot fill the void all of those other people have left. The baby is going to demand so much from them and depend on them explicitly. The baby is going to rely on them for food, shelter, safety, a nurturing environment, and much more.

In many situations the unprepared mother finds parenting more difficult than expected or too difficult just after a few weeks or a few months of trying to make a go of it. The unprepared mother finds her decision to parent;  the self centered decision to parent ... unsuccessful.

You cannot be unprepared and parent successfully.

Choosing to parent unprepared is selfish.

It takes a mature person to look at all of the options. A mature person can make a decision in the best interest of the child.

A birthparent is selfless and puts the needs of their baby first when they find out about all of their options, get educated about the options, and then make an educated choice for their baby based on what they have learned.

Making the best choice for your baby is a difficult path; but trying to parent unprepared will not provide a successful out come...So learn about your options and become educated about the path you are choosing for your baby.

1800-553-2229 (BABY)
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

Friday, June 11, 2010

What adoptive parents will raise my baby?

Adoptive parents have to "jump through hoops" to be parents.

Adoptive parents are screened before they can "qualify" for parenting your child.

The screening of the prospective adoptive parents is a long process and includes home visits by a social worker, interviews, criminal background checks, medical clearances, psychological screenings, and much more.

We have families that are waiting to adopt that have finished the screening process.

Choosing adoption and placing your baby into an adoptive home is a selfless act! Thinking about your baby’s needs first and setting your feelings aside takes a lot of courage.

Call us today to look at adoptive family profiles to select a prospective adoptive family for your baby.

1800-553-2229
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

Thursday, June 10, 2010

How do I start the adoption process?

How do I start the adoption process?

Just call us we are licensed adoption professionals and we will walk you through the process. You are not making a commitment to release your baby for adoption by just calling to collect information.

We can help you understand what the options in adoption are.

We can also inform you with the screening process what the prospective adoptive parents do to prepare for adopting a baby.

The more information you gather and learn about adoption the more help you have to make the right decision for your baby.

A concern that some people may have is:


"If I release my baby for adoption, people will talk about me."


People are likely to gossip about whatever your decision is. You need to make the best choice for your baby and for you. We all have had to survive gossip in school and elsewhere, learning to tune out the people that talk a lot helps us be happier people.

Since people are going to talk no matter what, make it clear you chose to think about your baby's best interests...they will admire that!

For more information call:

1-800-553-2229

http://www.adoptnewmexico/

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Pregnant!

Deciding between Adoption and Single Motherhood...

Finding out you are pregnant can be some of the worst news you've ever received if you were not planning on getting pregnant.

Your life is not over; we are here to help you look at all of your options.

If you choose the option of placing your child for adoption your life will be freed up again to finish school, get your feet under you, so you can start a family when you plan it...not when it is unexpected.

We encourage you to look at all of your options with the pregnancy!

You have the power to take the situations life has handed you and make a good situation out of it.

Many difficult decisions need to be made, don't let what other people will say or think of you sway your decision. You are the one who should decide who can do the best job of raising your baby!

Get an accurate picture of adoption by calling us, we can help explain the adoption process to you and we will support you in whatever decision you choose is best for your child.

Get all of the facts about adoption.

1-800-553-2229
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

Monday, June 7, 2010

Single Parenthood

Have you ever felt afraid, alone, embarrassed, guilty, overwhelmed, in shock all at the same time? A positive pregnancy test for a single lady may emerge all of these results at the same time.

The baby that the single lady is carrying is not an accident! When a male and female have sexual intercourse the primary result could be a pregnancy. Some people who are partaking in sexual activity may not even regard that as a possibility when agreeing to have sex.

Whether or not the male and female thought about the possibility of getting pregnant they now find themselves with an unplanned pregnancy.

Decisions about raising the baby as a single mother, or making an adoption plan with a two parent family are both difficult ones.

The media does not portray adoption correctly most of the time just like they do not portray single parenthood correctly either. The media tends to glamorize single parenthood and put down making a responsible adoption plan. Single parenthood is so difficult, and the media does not show a realistic view of it normally.

If you would like to learn more about single parenthood, adoption, unplanned pregnancy, etc. please contact us at:

1-800-553-2229
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

Friday, June 4, 2010

Women and Heart Disease

Heart Disease kills more women each year than cancer and diabetes combined

Women who sleep 8 hours a night have the lowest risk of heart disease. Sleeping less than 5 hours or more than 9 hours increases the risk by 30% or more.

I am not a doctor or a nurse but common heart attack symptoms for women include unusual fatigue or shortness of breath, nausea, dizziness, pain radiating down the left arm, and back pain.

If you experience any of the above call 911 or go to your doctor or ER, you may be having a heart attack.

Contact us if you would like more information on pregnancy related topics, adoption, and parenting information.

1-800-553-2229
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Pornography

Did you know:

* Twenty-five percent of total search engine requests on the internet are pornography related

* Average age of first internet exposure to pornography is 11-years-old

* More than 70% of men from 18-34 years-old visit a pornographic site in a typical month

* One out of every six women, including Christians, struggles with an addiction to pornography

There is no doubt that the rise of pornography via the Internet has perpetuated the increasing rates of sex addiction. Even scarier is how our sex-saturated culture is literally changing the brains of those who are immersed in it. In spite of the devastating effects, experts are finding out increasingly more about sex addiction, pornography and the brain.

If you would like more information about how to overcome a pornography or sex addiction please contact us at:

1800-553-2229
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Adoptive Couples

There are approximately 40 qualified adoptive couples waiting to adopt an infant for every baby available for adoption. 

The screening process for prospective adoptive couples is very tough, it includes interviews, home visits, criminal background checks, medical clearances, references, psychological screening and much more!

These two parent homes come from a financially secure back ground so they are able to handle another member of the family, and provide the baby with security and advantages. 

To learn more about the adoptive couples we have waiting to adopt or to become a prospective adoptive couple contact us at:

1800-553-2229
http://www.adoptnewmexico.org/