On the Dr. Phil television Show He had a 14 year old girl on the program that was openly sharing with everyone that she became sexually active at the age of 13, participating in activities with multiple partners; the activity included sexual intercourse, oral sex, & group sex.
Dr. Phil stated that ½ of teen girls are having sex.
Dr. Phil stated that 66% of teen girls send sexy pictures of themselves to teen boys, on their phone or over the internet.
The 14 year old girl stated she was not trying to get pregnant, but that she was providing her body to the boys because she wants the boys to like her. She also stated that she does not like feeling used but that she continues to allow sexual contact with the boys in hopes that she will be accepted, loved, cherished, etc. by the boys.
Dr. Phil stated that what teenage girls do not understand is that teenage boys don't want to go to the next level of the relationship with them, they don't want commitment...they just want sex.
The gril also stated that the sexual contact feels good in the moment, Dr. Phil added...like a drug; as soon as it is over she wants to hold onto the fantasy she has built up around the sexual contact but the boy just moves on without emotional commitment.
The father of the 14 year old girl has not been involved in her life. Dr. Phil stated, and I have to agree, that the relationship a father has with his male and female children has a huge baring on the teens view of sex.
Dr. Phil went on to express, if the teens get the healthy attention that they need from their father they value themselves and choose to have healthy relationships with others.
If you are a teen and have found yourself in this cycle or if you would like to learn more about this topic and how you can help your teen please contact me.
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